In Hot Water

I heard a nice insight today.

The same hot water that can boil an egg and can also make a potato soft. It's not the hot water that makes the difference, it's the same hot water. But the material that the these items are made from that makes the difference.

That's the same thing about life. It's not the outside influences that make us who we are, but are own inner constitution - what we're made of - that's what will determine how those outside influences shape us.


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